I think because in the BDSM 'scene' you know it's an act and that it's a fantasy. You leave all other outside problems outside that scene. In the article the circumstance and the people involved take themselves too seriously sometimes and are always bringing the drama.
I've been pretty fortunate I suppose. I'm also a novice so I haven't had that much of a diversity in my BDSM scenes. But luckily I was introduced to the bdsm scene by someone who takes no shit (drama) from others. So I've only been around that crowd.
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